dateflow · Long Beach

You cannot join alone.

dateflow is a membership for single adults in Long Beach. To get in, someone who knows you has to vouch for you. A member, a clinician, or a founding sponsor. That is the door policy.

A season is six weeks and sixteen people. A person, not a ranking, writes each of your three introductions and says why. The fourth is a wildcard, someone outside your stated type, with the argument attached. You meet in a real room one night a week. After every date, both of you note privately whether the other showed up and was who they said they were. That record is how the room stays good.

The best outcome is that you meet someone and stop needing us. We want you to delete us.

The Long Beach Singles Census

Nine questions about single life in this city. We do not ask your name or email, and your answers are never linked to the waitlist. We publish totals in groups of 25 or more, never a single response.

1. How old are you?
2. Which describes you right now?
3. How long have you been single?

Required. One or two sentences is plenty.

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5. What do you spend on dating in a typical month?

Apps, drinks, dinners, and getting there.

6. Where do you live?
8. What makes a first date tolerable?

Pick the one you would choose.

9. Would you want a friend to vouch for you?

Every question except number 4 is optional.